Hi, I’m Berni B – Your Guide Through Life’s Most Meaningful Moments
Celebrant. Doula. Legacy Planner. Stained-glass Artist. Gardener. Brunch lover. And yes, the one with the pink hair!
My Story: From Stained Glass to Storytelling – How I Found My Calling
I’ve always loved creating beauty and meaning—whether through stained glass, gardening, or (most importantly) helping people tell their stories.
After training as a celebrant in 2019, I realized how much joy and healing comes from honoring life’s chapters—the beginnings, the endings, and everything in between. Now, I combine my creativity, empathy, and a touch of quirk to help you:
- Document your wishes with My Life, My Death, My Wishes.
- Celebrate love in all its forms.
- Honour a life with a funeral or memorial that feels true to you.
The Values that Guide Me
💖 Authenticity & Sincerity: Your ceremony, commemoration or legacy plan will reflect the real you—no fluff, no pretences, no compromise. No rule book and absolutely no templates!
💖 Compassion & Empathy: I listen deeply and hold space for your story, no matter how messy or beautiful. Noticing not just what you say but how you say it, reading the gaps and silencing. Accepting YOUR truth exactly as it is and encouraging you to be true to yourself
💖 Advocacy & Inclusivity, Love & Acceptance: Love is love. All love stories, families, and identities are welcome here. Whatever size, shape, colour, age, ability of sexual orientation; you can feel comfortable with me being exactly who you are
💖 Creativity & Flexibility: finding the right poems and quotes; creating truly personalised to rituals; we’ll craft something together that is as unique as you are.
💖 Sustainability: I offer eco-friendly options and support local, ethical choices.
Why “No Rules”?
Because your life isn’t one-size-fits-all—and neither should your ceremonies be. Whether you want a handfasting in a forest, a memorial with a rock band, or a quiet moment by a river, I’m here to make it happen.
My Home & Heart in Mid-Wales: Where I Live and Work
I’m based in the heart of Mid-Wales, where the hills are green, the people are warm, and the stories run deep. When I’m not writing or leading ceremonies, you’ll find me:
- Gardening (ask me about my roses!).
- Creating stained glass (yes, I teach workshops!).
- Hosting brunch with friends (the more, the merrier!).
- Cuddling my cats (they’re the real bosses here).
Why Work With Me?
Because You Deserve a Celebrant Who Gets You
“I cannot Thank Berni enough for such a wonderfully composed, beautiful and very much personality-centred service.” – Sam B
- Trained & Experienced
- Celebrant trained with the Celebrant Coaching and Training Academy
- member of Civil Celebrant Connection.
- Doula trained with Living Well Dying Well
- Member of End of Life Doula UK
- Award-Winning – Recognized for my compassionate, creative approach.
- Real & Relatable – No stuffy scripts. Just your words, your way.
- Author of My Life, My Death, My Wishes – A book that’s changing how people plan for the end of life.
“She really listened to what we wanted, and went the extra mile to ensure the day was really ‘us’ ” – Freya & Daniel
Let’s Connect: I’d Love to Hear Your Story
Whether you’re planning a ceremony, writing your wishes, or just curious, let’s chat. No pressure, no obligation—just a cuppa and a conversation.
- Text or call : 07526 928232
- E-mail : info@bernib.co.uk
