I’m Berni B—Helping you to documenting your wishes, celebrate your love and milestones, and honour your whole story. With my book, My Life, My Death, My Wishes, and my work as a celebrant, I help you create meaningful moments for every chapter of your life.
Welcome, I believe that we should celebrate more. Give our achievements, the attention they deserve show gratitude to those who walk beside us, who accept and celebrate us for who we are . You are amazing, every milestone deserves to be honoured, reflected on and celebrated. I’m here to help. so, Welcome to a life well celebrated – from birth to death and everything in between.
Why Your Story Matter?
I believe every life is extraordinary—and every story deserves to be told. Whether you’re planning for the future, celebrating love, or honouring a life well-lived, I’m here to help you do it your way.
No rules. No scripts. Just you, your wishes, and a ceremony or plan that feels as unique as you are.
How Can I help You?
- My Life, My Death, My Wishes – Your guide to documenting your end-of-life wishes with clarity and heart.
- End-of-Life Celebrant – Compassionate funerals, memorials, and legacy planning.
- End-of-Life Doula/Soul Midwife – holding space and supporting you and your nearest through the final chapters of life
- Celebrant : Weddings/Vows (Love & Committment)– Bespoke ceremonies for love in all its forms.
- Celebrant for Significant Moments & Life Affirming Celebrations – All life chapters are worth celebrating – make them extra special with a ceremony – gratitude, recovery, naming, dead naming, graduation, transition
My Life, My Death, My Wishes – The Book That Helps You Plan with Heart
This isn’t just a book—it’s a conversation starter, a comfort, and a compass for anyone who wants to take control of their end-of-life wishes. Inside, you’ll find:
- Practical templates for advance directives, wills, and legacy letters.
- Thoughtful prompts to help you reflect on what truly matters.
- Poems and quotes to inspire and soothe.
- A signed copy with a personal note from me.
I have read Berni’s book and aside from the practical information (which is excellent) there are elements of her personality which shine through. The words ‘natural empath’ frequently spring to mind.- Lorraine Voss
A Celebrant Who Listens, Creates and Cares
I’m not your average celebrant. With pink hair (sometimes purple, or lilac!), 32 years of love with my partner John, and a passion for storytelling, I bring authenticity, warmth, and a touch of quirk to every ceremony and plan.
- Award-winning celebrant (mention any accolades).
- LGBTQ+ ally – Love is love, and I celebrate it in all its forms.
- Eco-conscious – I offer special rates for local, sustainable ceremonies.
- Your story, your way – No scripts, no rules, just you.
Lets Start The Conversation
Whether you’re ready to plan your legacy, celebrating love, or a major milestone in your life, or navigating a loss, I’m here to listen. Book a free, no-obligation chat to see how we can work together.
text or phone: 07526928232
e-mail: info@bernib.co.uk
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