End of Life & Death Planning : My Life, My Death, My Wishes

What about my life, my death, my wishes?  Well, I’m Berni B, a trained Funeral Celebrant and End of Life Doula, and I’m here to encourage you to talk about death and consider death planning.

As I age and come towards the end of my life, I have no way of knowing what’s around the corner, but I do know one thing, I want people to remember the vibrant and full life I lived before I became frail.  I want people to be aware of the life that I lived and the things that matter to me.  Even when I can no longer communicate them.  That’s why I’ve developed “My Life, My Death, My Wishes”; to ensure the lasting memories of me are not my last few days or weeks but the decades that led up to them.

My Life, My Death, My Wishes is a comprehensive package of templates, workshops, guides and useful signposts to ensure your life and your passions are documented to ensure that when you are dying and after your death, those who are caring for you can do so in a way that is aligned to your preferences, personality and wishes.

Do you feel confident that, if you suddenly became life threateningly ill your closest family and friends would know your wishes and preferences about your care?”


It is so important that others know both want we want and what we DON’T want

It is only fair that we help make the end of our life as easy as possible for those we love and leave behind.
Not only that, but death is a subject we all try so hard to avoid that very few of us are aware of all the options available to us.
I’m here to give you the time, space, information and tools to PRE-PLAN for the inevitable: DEATH.
Through group talks, coffee mornings, one-to-one conversations and family meetings, I want to help normalise the conversations and let you know your options.
Did you know, for example, that there is no legal requirement to use a Funeral Director? In fact the only legal requirement in the UK for funerals is that the death must be certified and registered, and the body must be disposed of.**
“Bernie is an amazing person, she is kind, caring, informative, compassionate and inspirational. I would thoroughly recommend her, she is a pink haired diamond, much love and huge thanks” – Oct 2021

Practical and Care Planning for End of Life 

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Death Wishes Planning

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Comprehensive package*

*both services in one – an even more cost effective option 


Initial 20 minute, no obligation, chat via telephone or zoom FREE

**Disposal means disposal by burial, cremation or any other means, and ‘disposed of’ has a corresponding meaning’ – source Births and Deaths Registration Act, 1926.



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